In this blog post I’ll share common beginner misconceptions and simple lessons about what I’ve learned starting out in Van life at a the age of 48 including expectations vs. reality, managing daily routines, plus unexpected benefits and challenges.
When I first started van life, one of the biggest challenges was finding safe, legal, and quiet places to park up for the night. I relied heavily on just one app Park4Night.—until I realised there were plenty of options and other smart techniques to make overnight stays a breeze. Here’s what I wish I’d known:
“I Wish I Knew There Were More Than One App for Finding Overnight Parking”
1. There’s More Than One App – Use Them All
Don’t rely on a single source. Different apps have different listings and community updates. Here are a few to check out. I’ve given them a https://avanlifething.com/must-have-parking-apps-for-van-life-2025/full review as well
• Park4Night – A European favourite with user-submitted spots including wild camping and paid locations.
• Searchforsites – Popular in the UK, especially good for quieter, off-the-beaten-path places.
• iOverlander – More globally focused, especially useful if you’re travelling outside the UK.
• Campercontact – Clean, well-organised listings with filters for services like water and electricity.
• Google Maps (with Street View) – Great for previewing locations, checking for level ground, and spotting signage.
2. Scout During the Day if Possible
Finding your spot before it gets dark gives you the best chance to judge safety, flatness, and noise levels. Pull in, have a look around, and trust your gut.
3. Use Lay-Bys, Industrial Estates, and Pub Car Parks Wisely
- Lay-bys and dead-end roads can be great in a pinch, especially in rural areas.
- Industrial estates are usually quiet at night but active early in the morning—good for late arrivals and early departures.
- Pubs often let you park if you ask nicely (and maybe buy a pint or meal). Always be polite and respectful.
4. Learn to Spot No Overnight Parking Signs
Get familiar with signage in your region. “No overnight stays” signs aren’t always obvious—some are small or written in fine print. A quick scan can save you from a midnight knock on the window.
5. Blend In When You Need To
If stealth camping is your only option, avoid drawing attention:
- Close blinds or curtains.
- Don’t use external lights or play loud music.
- Park in residential areas where camper vans are common.
- Don’t dump your grey water. People are always watching especially if you are stealth camping in a town or seaside spot. There will always be a busy body keeping an eye out for something to complain about.
6. Keep a Backup Spot in Mind
Always have a Plan B in case your first choice doesn’t work out—access issues, late-night crowds, or just bad vibes.
